- Relationship conflicts
- Parenting support
- Grief and loss
About Eben
He spent many years providing individual psychotherapy, group work, and family-oriented services in Santa Cruz County. That included school-based work at Mountain Elementary where he ran social learning groups and offered individual sessions to students. He has also worked with a local nonprofit that provides residential care for adults with developmental disabilities.
Earlier in his career he worked as a social worker in a residential treatment facility for children and adolescents with significant emotional needs. There he used cognitive behavioral techniques and solution-focused approaches to help clients practice new skills. He also coordinated with schools, medical providers, and social services when clients needed wider support.
In session he tends to be practical and direct. He helps people talk through communication problems, separation or divorce concerns, fatherhood and parenting strains, and the work of grieving a loss. He also supports people dealing with impulsivity, control issues, and problems that arise when a family blends or moves through major life changes.
He holds a Bachelor of Arts in American Studies from the University of California at Santa Cruz. Outside work he spends time hiking, surfing, and exploring local parks and coastline with his wife and two daughters.
License and NPI on record
- LMFT
- California · 53690
- NPI
- 1669510426
As listed on the therapist's profile. A license can be checked with the state board, and an NPI with the national NPI registry.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Experience
10+ years
Credentials
California
Languages
English
How therapeutic approaches fit into online work
Evidence-based techniques mentioned in his background include cognitive behavioral methods and solution-focused approaches. Cognitive behavioral methods look at patterns of thought and behavior and help people practice different responses. This approach is commonly used for anxiety, mood concerns, and managing impulsivity.Solution-focused work concentrates on current strengths and small, practical changes. It helps when someone feels stuck and wants clear next steps rather than long explorations of the past. Both approaches are action-oriented and can be used together depending on the situation.
Choosing the right style is treated as a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, test what helps, and adjust methods based on how the client responds. Clients and the therapist decide together which techniques to try and when to shift emphasis.
Confirm the therapist's offered session formats before booking because the profile does not specify them. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also allow work with a therapist from a different area of California without needing to commute, which can help sustain regular sessions while juggling family and work commitments.
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns does he address?
He works with relationship and family problems, grief, parenting stress, and self-esteem difficulties. Additional focuses include attachment, adoption and foster care, and caregiver stress.
How would he approach feeling stuck about direction in life?
He uses practical, evidence-informed techniques such as cognitive behavioral strategies and solution-focused work to help people identify small changes and test new ways of acting. Sessions emphasize doable steps rather than abstract theory.
What is his clinical background?
He has 10 years of experience working in private practice and in school and residential settings, including work with students, families, and adults with developmental disabilities.
What are his credentials and where does he practice?
He is an LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) licensed in California and practices from that state.
Does he work in other languages or with international clients?
Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats are available?
Please confirm current session options before booking since formats were not specified in the profile.
How are fees handled?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I start working with him?
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