- Addictions support
- Trauma recovery
- Career questions
About Ruben
Ruben favors straightforward conversations that clarify what's happening and what can change. He helps people name patterns, practice clearer communication, and find practical steps forward. Sessions are focused on concrete skills and understanding rather than abstract theory.
Over a decade in practice, Ruben has supported clients through addiction recovery and trauma-related concerns. He draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to address self-esteem and career-related uncertainty. He pays attention to how attachment and relationship patterns affect daily choices.
Ruben describes his method as collaborative. He works with each person to set goals and then tests small, doable changes between sessions. Progress is reviewed regularly so plans can be adjusted as needed.
People who want help thinking through life purpose or who are feeling stuck during a midlife change often find it useful to look at values, routine, and relationships together. Ruben also helps people strengthen communication skills and rebuild confidence after difficult experiences.
License and NPI on record
- LPC
- Oklahoma · LPC06685
- NPI
- 1770772253
As listed on the therapist's profile. A license can be checked with the state board, and an NPI with the national NPI registry.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Experience
10+ years
Credentials
Oklahoma
Languages
English
Therapeutic approaches and online sessions
Ruben uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide work on practical life issues. One common approach focuses on skills-building for communication and emotional regulation, which helps when relationships or attachment patterns get in the way of daily functioning. Another common strand emphasizes trauma-informed methods that attend to past harm while teaching coping skills for current triggers and cravings.Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Ruben collaborates with each person to match techniques to their goals, needs, and preferences. That means testing approaches in real time, reviewing what helps, and adjusting the plan together as progress and challenges appear.
Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current online options before booking. When offered, remote sessions can make it easier to fit short check-ins into a busy day, avoid travel time, or use a phone call when video is difficult. Licensed professionals also use online sessions to help people maintain momentum between in-person visits and to practice new skills in everyday contexts.
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns does he address?
He works with addictions, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, career questions, and coping with life changes. Additional focuses include attachment issues, communication problems, life purpose, midlife crisis, and self-love.
How does he approach feeling stuck?
He uses clear, practical conversations to identify patterns and set small steps for change. Sessions emphasize skills, communication practice, and regular review of progress.
How much experience does he have?
He has 10 years of clinical experience working with people facing addiction, trauma, career uncertainty, and life transitions.
What are his credentials and where is he based?
He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Oklahoma.
Can sessions be conducted in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Please confirm the current session formats before booking, as the biography does not list specific options. Check available formats when you select a session.
How is cost handled?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.
Good to know
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