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Sibi Selvarajah

Therapist · New York

Sibi Selvarajah

LCSW

LCSW - Stress and Relationship Concerns

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Experience
6 years
Based in
New York
Sessions
Online
Languages
English
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Life purpose

About Sibi

Sibi Selvarajah is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with six years of experience in New York. He works with people facing depression, anxiety, stress, and addiction, and addresses relationship concerns like family conflict, intimacy issues, and communication problems. He also lists life purpose among his focus areas. He pays attention to how culture and identity shape mental health. He talks about how discrimination and systemic factors can affect day-to-day wellbeing. That perspective informs how he discusses goals and challenges in sessions. Sibi helps people dig into attachment patterns, codependency, and questions of self-worth. He supports those processing trauma, major life changes such as divorce or grief, and identity shifts. He also works with sexual health topics including BDSM and kink, plus issues like eating concerns and substance use. Sessions aim to be collaborative and person-centered. He describes his role as working together to build insight and resilience rather than prescribing quick fixes. Expect conversations that focus on practical next steps as well as longer-term patterns. People looking for help with life purpose or with navigating complex relationship or addiction concerns will find those areas listed among his work. He practices in English and is based in New York, with a focus on inclusive, culturally aware care.

License and NPI on record

LCSW
New York · 097347

As listed on the therapist's profile. A license can be checked with the state board, and an NPI with the national NPI registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCancerCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsForgivenessHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobia

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How evidence-based approaches translate to online sessions

Evidence-based therapeutic techniques often used for depression and anxiety focus on identifying unhelpful thinking and changing patterns of behavior. That work typically involves noticing thought patterns, testing small behavioral experiments, and practicing new ways of coping that reduce symptoms over time.

Approaches that address attachment and relational patterns concentrate on understanding how early relationships shape current reactions. In sessions this means mapping relationship patterns, naming recurring dynamics, and trying new interaction strategies to see if they change outcomes.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will collaborate with each client to decide which techniques fit best with their goals and preferences, adjusting methods as work progresses.

Practical benefits of online work include easier scheduling around work and family obligations and fewer barriers to attending a session from a different location. The biography did not list specific session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Many people find remote sessions help them keep consistent appointments and fit therapy into a busy life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with depression, anxiety, stress, and addictions, plus relationship concerns such as family conflict, intimacy issues, and communication problems.

How does he approach someone who feels stuck?

His style is collaborative and person-centered, focusing on building insight and practical steps while exploring longer-term patterns like attachment and codependency.

What is his professional background?

He has six years of clinical experience and holds the credential LCSW, which is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential.

Where does he practice and what is his license?

He practices in New York and holds the NY LCSW credential.

Can I have sessions in another language or from another country?

Sessions are offered in English. He is not accepting international clients at this time.

What formats are available for sessions?

Session formats were not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

To get started, select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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