Simon Nelson

Simon Nelson is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with three years of practice. He works with adults who are facing stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, grief and questions about self-esteem. He also offers help for a wide range of related concerns including attachment issues, caregiver stress, codependency and feelings of emptiness.

Simon focuses on face-to-face conversation between counsellor and client. He uses a person-centred way of working that keeps the session driven by what the client brings. Sessions tend to be practical and conversational, helping people name what feels difficult and notice what matters to them.

He draws on Client-Centred Therapy alongside Motivational Interviewing and structured dialogue techniques when these suit the client’s goals. These approaches mean sessions can move between open listening and more directed discussion about next steps or changes someone wants to try.

Simon is comfortable talking about relationship boundaries and alternative sexual cultures, including BDSM and kink. He also works with issues such as addiction, impulsivity, control problems and end-of-life concerns. The emphasis is on helping people make sense of their reactions and consider manageable choices.

People who choose Simon can expect straightforward conversation, reflective listening, and practical ways to think about change. To begin, clients follow the site process to match and schedule a first appointment.

How his approaches work in online sessions

Client-Centred Therapy places the client’s perspective at the heart of the session. The counsellor listens openly and reflects back what the client says to help them notice their feelings and values. This approach is useful for people unsure what matters next or who want to understand their reactions more clearly.

Motivational Interviewing focuses on helping someone weigh options and move towards change at their own pace. It uses focused questions and gentle reflection to clarify goals and increase readiness for practical steps. This can help with issues such as addiction, procrastination or commitment doubts.

Finding the right combination of approaches is part of the work. The counsellor will collaborate with the client to decide whether a person-centred tone, a more directed motivational style, or a blend suits their needs and preferences. That choice can change over time as goals evolve.

Confirm which session formats are offered before booking since the biography does not list them. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, or avoid travel time. Registered or accredited professionals often use online sessions to keep therapy practical and accessible while focusing on the client’s goals and daily life.