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Tieaesha Gaines

Therapist · California

Tieaesha Gaines

LMFT

LMFT in California - Relationships and Life Purpose

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Experience
23 years
Based in
California
Sessions
Online
Languages
English
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Attachment issues
  • Life purpose work

About Tieaesha

Tieaesha Gaines is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 23 years of clinical experience. She helps people who are feeling stuck, dealing with stress or anxiety, or facing relationship and trauma-related concerns. Tieaesha also supports those coping with life changes, questions about life purpose, and struggles with self-esteem and motivation.

Tieaesha uses several well-known counseling approaches to guide sessions. She draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thinking and build manageable habits. Attachment-based work is used to look at how early connections influence current relationship patterns. She also integrates client-centered listening so people feel heard while they make practical choices.

In sessions she focuses on concrete steps rather than labels. Conversations often include tracking patterns, practicing communication skills, and trying short exercises between meetings. For relationship concerns she may work on clearer communication and boundaries. For trauma and abuse she focuses on coping tools and stabilizing responses before moving into deeper material.

Tieaesha is comfortable addressing less commonly discussed areas such as kinky or alternative sexual cultures, polyamory and non-monogamous relationships, and multicultural or discrimination-related impacts. She pays attention to shame, guilt, control issues, and codependency when they come up.

People who contact Tieaesha typically complete a brief questionnaire, then schedule a first session to see how the work might proceed. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

License and NPI on record

LMFT
California · 82021

As listed on the therapist's profile. A license can be checked with the state board, and an NPI with the national NPI registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualityWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

23+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It often involves identifying personal values and trying small actions that reflect those values, which can help when someone feels directionless. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thinking patterns and testing new behaviors. It suits problems like anxiety, low mood, and practical life changes because it uses clear exercises and homework.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Tieaesha will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and comfort. That means checking in about what helps, trying strategies, and adjusting the plan based on what actually works in session.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counseling into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people try techniques between sessions in their everyday environment, which can make practice feel more practical. If you want to know precise session types and scheduling, check the listing for current online therapy options and how to schedule a first meeting.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, and coping with life changes, including questions about life purpose.

How would she approach feeling stuck or unsure about next steps?

She uses approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify patterns and practice small, practical steps toward clearer choices.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Tieaesha has 23 years of professional work experience supporting people with relationship and life transition concerns.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is a California LMFT and practices in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Session cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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