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Alison May

Therapist or counsellor · United Kingdom

Alison May

BACP

BACP counsellor - life purpose and relationships

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Experience
6 years
Based in
United Kingdom
Sessions
Online
Languages
English
  • Attachment-based
  • Narrative approaches
  • Works with neurodiversity

About Alison

Alison May is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with six years' experience. She focuses on life purpose questions and common difficulties such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems and addiction. Alison also works with issues around sexuality and gender, neurodiversity, and parenting concerns. Alison works in an integrative way, drawing on several therapies to respond to what people bring. Sessions are collaborative - she treats clients as the expert in their own lives and helps them name what matters next. Conversations are straightforward and practical, aimed at helping people move through stuck moments. She has particular experience with grief, trauma and compassion fatigue. Alison also supports people navigating big life changes and decisions about work or relationships. Where neurodiversity, ADHD or autism are part of a person’s story, she brings both personal and professional understanding. Alison describes herself as an ally to people of colour and trans people, and she has worked with LGBT+ clients in professional roles. That background informs how she talks about identity and belonging in sessions. People can expect a mix of listening, reflective questions and narrative work that looks at how life stories are told. She uses attachment-based thinking to consider patterns in relationships, and psychodynamic ideas to notice recurring themes. Practical steps and short-term focus appear when clients want them, and longer exploration is available when that fits.

Registration on record

BACP
United Kingdom · 396862

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

LGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Alison’s approaches translate to online work

Attachment-based work looks at patterns in relationships and how early bonds affect current connections; online sessions use that lens to spot repeating interaction styles and develop different ways of relating. Client-centred work focuses on listening and putting the client’s priorities first; online meetings can keep that pace with space for people to lead each session. Narrative therapy pays attention to the stories people tell about themselves and their choices; this helps when someone feels stuck about the next chapter. Finding the right way of working is part of the process. Alison approaches this collaboratively and will discuss which combination of approaches feels most useful. She will check goals, preferences and practical needs and adapt the work as those change. The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Many people find online sessions help fit therapy into a busy life - they can be easier to schedule around work or childcare, or allow for shorter check-ins when time is tight. Online meetings also mean you do not need to travel to attend a session, which can make regular work more manageable.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Alison commonly address?

She works with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, addiction, grief and stress. Life changes, questions about purpose, sexuality and gender are also within her stated focus.

How does she approach feeling stuck or unsure what comes next?

Alison uses an integrative, team-based style that combines listening, reflective questions and narrative work. She helps people clarify priorities and try practical next steps.

What is her background and experience?

She has six years of counselling experience and professional work with LGBT+ and neurodiverse people. She also describes lived personal experience relevant to neurodiversity.

What professional credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and Alison accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Alison?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.

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